TY - BOOK AU - Lukas, Christopher. AU - Seiden, Henry M., TI - Silent grief: living in the wake of suicide SN - 9781843108474 (pbk.) AV - HV6548.U5 L85 2007 U1 - 362.28 22 PY - 2007/// CY - London, Philadelphia PB - Jessica Kingsley Publishers KW - Suicide KW - United States KW - Bereavement KW - Psychological aspects KW - Suicide victims KW - Family relationships KW - Grief KW - Family Relations N1 - Includes bibliographical references (p. 214-216) and index; Introduction; Lukas's story --; What happens to the survivor after someone commits suicide --; Emotional reactions to suicide --; A family's story --; The bargain : a deal we make with life --; Bargains : the long good-bye --; Bargains : scapegoating --; Bargains : "I am guilty; I am a victim" --; Bargains : cutting off -- Bargains : a miscellany --; The saddest bargain : "because you died, I'll die" --; The grand bargain : silence --; Reactions to an adolescent's suicide --; Responding --; Giving help by listening --; Getting help by talking --; Talking with children --; Living with suicide : some stories about responding --; Epilogue; Lukas's story : a personal summary; Introduction: Lukas's story -- What happens to the survivor after someone commits suicide -- Emotional reactions to suicide -- A family's story -- The bargain : a deal we make with life -- Bargains : the long good-bye -- Bargains : scapegoating -- Bargains : "I am guilty; I am a victim" -- Bargains : cutting off -- Bargains : a miscellany -- The saddest bargain : "because you died, I'll die" -- The grand bargain : silence -- Reactions to an adolescent's suicide -- Responding -- Giving help by listening -- Getting help by talking -- Talking with children -- Living with suicide : some stories about responding -- Epilogue: Lukas's story : a personal summary; Pt. 1; The short term : "what's happening to me?" --; Introduction : Lukas's story --; 1; What happens to the survivor after someone commits suicide --; 2; Emotional reactions to suicide --; 3; A family's story --; Pt. 2; The long run : "what's going to happen to me?" --; 4; The bargain : a deal we make with life --; 5; Bargains : the long good-bye --; 6; Bargains : scapegoating --; 7; Bargains : "I am guilty; I am a victim" --; 8; Bargains : cutting off --; 9; Bargains : a miscellany --; 10; The saddest bargain : "because you died, I'll die" --; 11; The grand bargain : silence --; 12; Reactions to an adolescent's suicide --; Pt. 3; Giving help and getting help : listening and talking --; 13; Responding --; 14; Giving help by listening --; 15; Getting help by talking --; 16; Talking with children --; 17; Living with suicide : some stories about responding --; Epilogue - Lukas's story : a personal summary --; App; Where to find self-help groups N2 - "Silent Grief is a book for and about "suicide survivors" - those who have been left behind by the suicide of a friend or loved one. Christopher Lukas is a suicide survivor himself - several members of his family have taken their own lives - and the book draws on his experiences, as well as those of numerous other suicide survivors. These personal testimonies are combined with the professional expertise of Dr. Henry M. Seiden, a psychologist and psychoanalytic psychotherapist."--BOOK JACKET UR - http://catdir.loc.gov/catdir/toc/ecip074/2006037213.html UR - http://bvbr.bib-bvb.de:8991/F?func=service&doc_library=BVB01&doc_number=016543480&line_number=0001&func_code=DB_RECORDS&service_type=MEDIA ER -