TY - BOOK AU - Ginsburg, Kenneth R., AU - Jablow, Martha Moraghan, AU - Mulcahy, Peg, AU - Rembert,Daniel AU - Ginsburg,Kenneth R. TI - Building resilience in children and teens: giving kids roots and wings SN - 9781610023856 AV - HQ769 .G56 2015 U1 - 155.418 PY - 2015/// CY - Elk Grove Village, Illinois : PB - American Academy of Pediatrics, KW - Child rearing KW - Parent and child KW - Resilience (Personality trait) in children KW - Resilience (Personality trait) in adolescence KW - Adolescent psychology KW - Child psychology KW - Parenting N1 - Includes index; Includes online videos; Includes bibliographical references and index; Part 1; Resilience and stress. Why resilience? --; Stress and its effects --; Ingredients of resilience: 7 crucial C's --; Not letting others undermine your child's resilience (or psych you out!); Part 2. Competence and confidence. Getting out of the way --; The value of play --; Noticing, praising, and criticizing --; Authentic success --; Thinking clearly --; No more lectures --; "I get it!" --; Changing behavior step-by step --; Shifting the blame to save face --; Media literacy --; Not being broken --; Building confidence; Part 3; Connection, character, and contribution. Connection --; The art and importance of listening --; Strengthening family ties --; Widening the circle --; Some cautions about connection --; Supporting resilience in military families --; Nurturant connections offer meaningful protection against the effects of childhood trauma --; Character --; Grit: the character trait that drives performance --; Contribution; Part 4. Coping. Getting a grip on stress --; Taking action --; Taking care of your body --; Taking care of your emotions; Part 5. Control. Styles of discipline --; Positive discipline strategies --; Increasing kids' control --; Delaying gratification --; Preparing our families for lifelong interdependence --; One rung at a time --; Not everything is within our control; Part 6; When resilience is challenged beyond reasonable limits. Extreme circumstances --; Turning for help --; When your own resilience reaches its limits; Part 7. Especially for communities and individual teens. Community-based resilience-building strategies --; Just for kids: a personalized guide for managing stress --; Parting thoughts N2 - This book offers coping strategies for facing the combined elements of academic performance, high achievement standards, media messages, peer pressure, and family tension UR - http://www.healthychildren.org/English/healthy-living/emotional-wellness/Building-Resilience/Pages/default.aspx ER -